
Rev Mark Harris is one of the leading voices calling for a ban on same-sex marriage in N. Carolina. He heads up the state's Baptist Convention this year and will be in the vanguard of a push for a state constitutional amendment.
In reference to the upcoming referendum on marriage equality in the state, Harris said he wants a civil debate: “But I hope we can express our positions – keep the conversation to the facts and our principles – and do it in a civil way...”
Trouble is there is little that has been "civil" about the debate on this issue to date, with opponents of same-sex marriage frequently resorting to the worst slurs and stereotypes in an effort to demonize. Few issues are so emotionally charged.
It doesn't help when there is an attempt to defend traditional marriage with graphics designed to intimidate. The image up top was chosen by the North Carolina Family Policy Council to appear in its quarterly publication. It's an obvious attempt to generate fear by profiling same-sex marriage as a real and present danger.
The graphic sends a warped message that has little to do with reality. Same-sex partners are concerned with doing what feels best for them. To profile same-sex marriage as an assault on traditional marriage is paranoid thinking writ large.
The last time we heard about cross-hairs was in connection with Sarah Palin's infamous 'crosshairs' map that targeted legislators who voted for Obama's health care bill. The map received extensive media attention after the Tucsan shooting that injured Congresswoman Gabrielle Giffords.
The sniper graphic manages to be both offensive and absurd in equal measure. The shooter in the wheatfield with the gun sights trained on the couple is presumably someone with a grudge of homicidal proportions - an unlikely scenario given that the LGBT community and its supporters aren't exactly gun friendly and not famous for snipers.
If opponents of same-sex marriage really want a civil debate they should start by toning down the rhetoric and retiring the gun imagery. Marriage is about love and commitment. In that context it is universal, something we all can or should be able to relate to irrespective of orientation.
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